The step that defines girls becoming women in many cultures world wide is menarche. Reactions differ worldwide. Some cultures celebrate a girl entering these early stages of adulthood; other cultures completely shame the young women, viewing them as unholy and unclean during this time of the month. Negative views with menstruation come along with the suppression of female’s sexuality. We can work to develop a more positive view of menstruation by embracing sexuality and encouraging more discussion on the topic of menstruation, periods, and how women can advance in life safely.

In places like Africa and India, feminine products and menstrual supplies are limited or absent from society. As a female, I could not imagine life without tampons. Females in these cultures are often shunned for a week, kept away from men, and sometimes forbidden to eat or drink certain products. The Jewish Orthodox religion has rules about marriage and menstruation. Some of these rules include sleeping on separate beds, no physical contact for two weeks. When these rules were made, it is explained that the Torah was trying to attempt women, as no knowledge about hygiene or health was yet known. While some may view these practices as oppressive, some find it empowering and strengthening to a relationship. One woman describes, “the most corny things become meaningful,” as man and woman are not even allowed to directly pass objects to each other. It is also the woman’s duty to cleanse herself after the sunsets at the end of her cycle.

Worldwide, many women have different feelings towards their menstrual cycles. Some fear it or are ashamed to talk about the natural process. Many women are delighted when the flow comes, as it means they are not pregnant. Many just find it annoying and tedious: it’s a lot to take care of physically and women are often pissy or unusually sad for a week or so.

Reflective tag: Periods are natural. People, men and women alike, should not be afraid of the process or afraid of the conversations of them. While they’re annoying and tedious, they’re essential for life. Different cultures and societies have different practices regarding a woman’s time of the month, but one of the most important parts is the safety of women during this time in regards to hygiene and care for their cycles.