Gender binary refers to two distinct, separate sexes (male and female) and the specific expectations and stereotypes of the two. Examples of going outside gender binaries range from a female ordering a beer and a burger (rather than a sweet, mixed drink and a salad) or being attracted to members of the same sex. Today’s societies norms for genders are constantly being expanded, as people have realized how constraining they have become.

Individuals who identify as neither man nor woman identify as third gender.  Native American societies, India, and Thailand, among many others, will recognize the third gender on forms of identification. India’s ancient transgender community of Hijra formally identify as neither male nor female. Often, these individuals have lived a life of neglect and hardship before becoming a Hijra. An estimate of two million Hijra live in India today. Hijra, or the transgender society, are viewed highly and are associated with the gods and deities of the culture. A newly wedded couple, as well as babies and small children, come to Hijra for advice and blessings.

Many neglect and abuse the third gender. As a result of not being accepted by friends and family, many transgender individuals have been kicked out of their households and have turned to lives of sex trade and prostitution.

Reflective Tag: The third gender is real, and it’s unfortunate that people choose to ignore them, and in turn for those who are not accepted by society for simply identify with who they truly feel they are.