Sex and Gender are very controversial topics in todays society. Sex is the biological assignment at birth either male or female. Gender on the other hand is how one wants to identify themselves in society. The spectrums of sex and gender are very different. At birth sex is determined by the reproductive organs, although in rare cases people have been known to be born with a combination of male and female reproductive organs. This is known as a hermaphrodite. While gender is how a person feels in society not based on their biological sex. One’s gender is determined by a combination of factors including psychological, social, and behavior. The psychological aspect of gender is how the person feels inside, when someone identifies as a gender different from their sex it is known as gender dysphoria. The social aspect to gender is how society assumes gender roles. And lastly the behavioral factor of gender is how a person behaves in through their appearance and actions.
Traditionally in the United States there were only two genders, male and female, and there were social expectations expected of them. Men were expected to be the main economic provider for the household, while women were supposed to stay home and take care of the domestic chores around the house and raise the children. Until World War II most women didn’t pursue careers or work outside of the house, but when there was a shortage of workers due to the draft of WWII women needed to take up jobs that were traditionally only for men. Ever since WWII women have been in the working force at an increasing rate but the old stereotypes of gender roles in society are still affecting the way men and women are treated in society. Many people still believe that women should give up pursuing higher education or careers in order to have families, but women don’t want to do that anymore. In todays society women are waiting longer to have families in order to have careers, and in many households the roles have switched completely and women have become the economic providers while men stay at home to raise the children and take care of domestic duties.
People that have gender dysphoria and don’t fall under the traditional beliefs of the two genders are not always accepted in modern societies. These people fall under this category are considered third gender. Third gender is just another way of saying that someone identifies as a gender that is different from male or female. In India for example men that become women are called Hijra. They must go through an illegal surgery to remove their male body parts and sacrifice them to the gods. Hijra are often kicked out of their households and not treated fairly in society, facing terrible discrimination. Julie McCarthy reported on a Hijra named Abhina Aher she had faced terrible discrimination and hasn’t spoken to her own mother in years. She is unlike most Hijra in that she works a full-time job working for the Indian HIV-AIDS Alliance expanding AIDS awareness. (McCarthy)
In Thailand the transgender community is widely accepted. The Kathoeys or ‘ladyboys’ are men that have become women. There are many different stages of ladyboys, some have had full reconstructive surgeries to become a woman while others haven’t had any work done at all. In society these people are not discriminated agains at all and are actually like tourist attractions. People travel from all over to see how impressive they are. Many ladyboys go on to marry men, and this is not viewed as wrong in their society. The culture in Thailand is very accepting and loving, and they don’t think differently of them at all.
Cultural and social norms of gender are different all around the world. Each country has a different set of beliefs about how men and women should operate in society. In many middle east countries women are still forced to stay home and take care of the house and children, while more western countries with equal rights for men and women allow women to have careers in whatever field they chose. Another changing aspect of society is the number of third gender people in the world. In many countries they are not accepted and treated very poorly while other countries don’t see them as any different and are very welcoming in their society. The world as a whole has a long way to go until everyone is treated equally and fairly but every day we get closer and closer to that goal.
McCarthy, Julie. “A Journey Of Pain And Beauty: On Becoming Transgender In India.” NPR, NPR, 18 Apr. 2014, www.npr.org/sections/parallels/2014/04/18/304548675/a-journey-of-pain-and-beauty-on-becoming-transgender-in-india.