Sex and gender vary in that sex is a combination of an individual’s bodily characteristics, where gender “describes the characteristics that a society or culture delineates as masculine or feminine.” Sex is something that an individual is given at birth, while gender is something that an individual identifies as normally by age 5. Gender however, is not something than an individual decides upon, instead is based upon ideals of what masculinity and femininity is in their culture and how they themselves fit into the social system.

In western culture masculinity has traditionally been associated with being a leader, being stronger, rough housing, and being able to solve problems. Femininity is traditionally associated with being pretty, being graceful, and supporting their masculine counterparts. Blue is supposed to be a boy color and pink is supposedly a girl color. Traditionally not fitting into these gender molds was considered wrong. However as younger generations are becoming more able to accept we now know that many individuals, all across the gender spectrum, do not fit into these molds.

These traditional gender roles tell young boys that they can grow up to be anything. Their supposed to grow up to be big and strong, where girls are brought up in a culture that conditions them to want to play inside and grow up to be a housewife. Most girl’s toys are centered around a house, while boy’s toys typically are based around adventure or violence. Ken and Barbie have a house together while GI Joe and the Power Rangers are out fighting monsters and the forces of evil. Even in movies marketed to children we see that the male gender tends to have a dominant presence over the feminine characters. In movies like Mulan and Pocahontas, movies based around female heroes, male characters make up more than 75% of the dialogue. This subjugation of the female gender in society teaches young girls that they are somehow less important than the male gender. Society needs to place a larger emphasis on promoting positive feminine values, and quit viewing confidence as a bitchy trait, while expecting it from masculinity.

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I got a definition for gender that I could quote from: http://www.med.monash.edu.au/gendermed/sexandgender.html