BIO-218X
Noah Delaney-Manuel
6/19/18
Reflective Essay-My Experience
In this course, my mind has gone through many changes as to the true meaning of gender and the identity a person has. Having come from a background where a boy is a boy, and a girl is a girl, it was hard for me to see through the eyes of someone who says they are a girl trapped in a boy’s body. Having now learned that gender has nothing to do with the physical features of a person, I now know that I was wrong before. Part of the reason I think I had this misunderstanding to the true meaning of what gender was is the way society portrayed this community. If anyone looks, it is clear to see that anyone in the transsexual community tends to be shunned in our culture. Many of my assignments in this class opened my eyes to many of the issues and facts about gender and culture. The main points I took away from this course were culture affects gender identity, and how the transsexual community is treated needs to change.
From a cultural standpoint, America has never been one to accept people who are different from our “social norms”. Between the oppression of the African American people and Latino communities, everyone looks past the group that often gets treated the same, and maybe even worse. The group to which I am referring to is the transgender community. For someone to come out and say that they do not feel home in their own body is a hard-enough process as it is. But, when you add in the social repercussions that one can get from coming out in their culture has an impact on the number of people who have the courage to come out. In one artifact that I completed, when the culture one lived in supported a third gender or accepted the gay community, those people tend to come out easier and have an easier life (Artifact 2). In this artifact, I found many cultures which not only accepted people who were transgender, but they in a way praised them. In India, the culture believes that people who go through the change from man to woman, have sacred powers that have been bestowed by a higher power. For this community of people, there is a sense of safety in who they truly are. If they had the cultural views on third gender in their society like America has, they would not have this sense of safety. They are able to get healthcare in their close to third world country, where some transgender people in America are denied help when it is most needed (Artifact7).
Another point I learned was that the treatment of the transgender community needs to change. For artifact 7, our class watched a film called “southern comfort”. In this film, we followed a transsexual man by the name of Robert Eades. Robert was born as a female and then had the sex change later on in his life. In the film, we learn that Robert still has his female sex organs on his body. This confused me at first until I referred to the definition of gender that I studied in artifact 1. Sex is the physical anatomy of the person which makes you male or female where gender is the social and cultural aspect of whether someone is male or female. In Robert’s case, he had the female parts, with a male mind. For Robert, he described his situation as a serious personal dilemma. He had the choice of staying a woman and making his family happy, or changing himself to make himself happy. Unfortunately, seeking his personal happiness led to his death. In the film, Robert saying that he has diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Since the doctors did not want to remove his female parts, and did not allow him to get regular check-ups to see if he had cancer symptoms, they let him wait until he had the cancer. Despite knowing they could help Robert by removing the ovaries, no hospital would take him because he was a transsexual. It would not be accurate to say they are the cause of his death, but they definitely had a major impact in it. For doctors to be able to deny someone treatment simply from the fact that he was a transsexual was mind boggling to me. After much time reflecting on previous artifacts on gender gap pay and genders role in society, it made sense to why this was okay in the doctor’s heads. Our culture does not yet support this community nor the people in it, so they were doing the “Christian” thing to do and turn a blind eye to a person in need (Artifact 2, Artifact 3, Artifact 4).
In all the assignments that I have completed this year, I see myself as one of the lucky ones in our society. From doing all these artifacts, I see how we need to change our society as a whole so that everyone, no matter who or what, gets the same treatment. The case with Robert Eades is a prime example of the problem our nation has. For anyone to be denied help and allowed to die because they are different is inhumane. Unfortunately, I can honestly say that before this course I would have been one to say that it is wrong what Robert did by changing himself and he deserved what came to him. It disgusts me that I used to be like that, but I am fortunate enough to have changed my entire outlook on the transsexual community, and I believe it is time for our nation to change theirs as well.
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Noah Delaney-Manuel